Saint Valentine’s

Dictated by Genny, written by Max.

A heart is not judged by how much you love, but by how much you are loved by others – Frank Morgan.

There is a real change of pace on the weekends – no therapies (or “T’s”) means there is time to unwind and relax before another big week of rehab. “Being in here is like having a full time job” and for someone who hasn’t been working for 10+ years, it’s taking some real getting used to.

Saturday was a real treat – “I hauled it in with flowers and an iPad! Dad got a box of chocolates and a lovely Japanese whisky.” Ben & Max have flown up again, so the room was filled with roses and sickly sweetness.

Valentine's Day flowers
Valentine’s Day flowers

Both Lynn & Aunty Elsie visited on the weekend and “it was lovely to see them.”

On Sunday “Deidre & Warren brought the dogs to see me. Deidre says the dogs are looking everywhere for me at home – Little Emmy came running when she saw me – she sure knew who I was!” The little furry visitors brought a change of pace to the hospital and we spent a lovely afternoon in the garden with them.

Mum and the dogs
Mum and the dogs

“I loved talking to Rick on Skype. He’s coming home in April and says he’s taking two weeks carers leave in May and June to come and see me”. Anyone with a pair of ears is being told the news!

Skyping
Skyping

“I am still learning how to use the iPad & playing white board crosswords with the boys” – Mum’s vision is improving immensely and we’re really hopeful that her love of reading will be restored soon.

Today sees her return to her schedule of therapies -starting with Speech Therapy at 9am. There is a family meeting scheduled for this afternoon with the Allied Health team looking after Mum. We’re hoping to get an understanding of Mums deficiencies and limitations in the long term. We’re also planning for the weeks and months ahead, so today is an important step forward.

We’ll be in touch again soon. Mum is much more involved in the blog now (with the help of her new ipad) so she can see it all for herself!

If you’re at all ‘tech-savvy’ please find Genny Ensor on Skype (or comment below with your contact details) so that Mum might be able to call you – what a thrill!


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2 responses to “Saint Valentine’s”

  1. It was fantastic Skyping with you Mum, yesterday. I hope to Skype many more times. I can already see such improvement since I saw you last and it truly brought joy to my heart! It’s all true and I will take a bit of leave to be with you all, no matter where you are, in Apr/May. I just have to organise the girls removal to Newcastle first! Lots of love, Rick.

  2. Well, I have often thought I would have to learn how to Skype and this has given me the incentive I needed. I think I will wait for one of the younger generation to start me off though, so it could be a week or so before I am up and running. Looking forward to communicating with you on a whole new level Gen.

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